You aren't always
An idiot,
Nor is he always
A jerk,
& it's not that
You can never
Do anything
Right.
Doing it wrong
Once or twice
Is a learning curve
Not a statement
Of what is always
So,
Unless you believe
The lies
You and others
Are telling
Yourself.
There is
A little kid
Who lives
Inside you
Who believes
You when you
Say you are
Stupid
And can
Never do
Anything right.
No one needs
To be the
External bad guy,
You've internalized
Them all.
Always doesn't
Have to
Be bad…
Doesn't have
To be the
Lies we and other
Have told us…
We could choose
To pay attention.
Small victories
At first
Can be huge.
You did do
One thing right,
You got tired
Of it always feeling
Like it's your fault.
Because it's not.
You are reading
This poem,
That's two.
Sometimes you
Do get it right.
Sometimes you
Get angry enough
To take action,
Even when
You are
Afraid.
You are always
Worthy,
Beautifully Human,
Adored by someone
Even if its
Just me,
Always loveable,
Even if you
Don't feel
That way
About yourself,
Constantly,
Doesn't mean,
It isn't true.
Small victories,
Start with the next
Thought,
Pay attention to it,
And if it isn't
A loving thought,
Question where
It comes from.
You don't HAVE
To believe
Every thought
You think,
Unless you want to.
Unless you choose to.
Not to mention
There are those
Of us
Out here
Who love you
There in your head
Who love
And accept you.
Seek those
Who love
Without judgement
To shine light
To help
Guide you
Out of that
Dark place you
Are in…
Because we were
Once there too…
And know
That Always really
Isn't forever,
Unless you
Are talking about
The love
Of friends
And family
Who accept
You…
Just as you are
Where you are.