My little guy's dad can be a big ass. It's not that he doesn't love him, it's just that it seems like he picks on him, just for something to do. I am getting really tired of it and so are my little guy's sisters. I can't really stop him, if he wants to leave. I just want him to be happy. His father promised he would try to get along with the kids a lot better, but it doesn't seem like he's trying at all. My little guy went away all Summer to Cadet camp and the sh*t started about two days after he came home.