Standing there taking the abuse
Why?
You can say things
Make them feel guilty
Just don't say bad things
Making the guilt come
May bring them regret-
Which may help them walk the path of success
Towards repentance to their Lord
Maybe even a new lease of life for your friendship
The only way to say it
Is say it how it is
How bad it is to do what they did or said
Do not be afraid to defend your heart
If you bottle it up
Your heart may as well tell your Lord you caused it a great deal of pain by being afraid
Afraid of people instead of just fearing your Lord as you should