When you truly love another with all of your heart, it is impossible to deceive or mislead them.
They are so much a part of your heart, your soul, your mind, conscious and unconscious that doing anything that would hurt or devastate them would be devastating to yourself.
When you love someone with your whole heart you stand by their side and support them in all of their endeavors.
You accept them unconditionally as the unique and imperfect, yet perfectly beautiful human being that they are - as unique and imperfect as we all are and individually beautiful in our own way.
I could not live with myself or look my beloved in the eyes if I ever did anything to deceive or hurt him; even if he did not know I would know and how then could I face him knowing that I had betrayed something precious and irreplaceable: His trust in me.
Today, deceit and infidelity is a game.
The old adage, “What you don't know can't hurt you” certainly is not true.
It can destroy you, your own self respect and eventually the relationship.
We should live by the golden rule and yet take it one step further.
Don't ever do anything that would hurt or upset your loved one if they were to know. Don't say or do anything that you would not say or do in their presence.
I can not comprehend nor can I be convinced that anyone who is deceiving their loved one or betraying their trust truly loves them.
The most sacred thing we human beings can share is intimacy with one another; spiritual, physical and emotional communion with our love one in the most intimate, beautiful, sacred, private passionate way.
Deceit begins long before unfaithful intimacy with another.
When we say or do anything we must hide from our beloved - that is deceit and deceit is unacceptable in love.
Deception is always a conscious choice, temptation may come - love will walk away with a clear conscience.
“Does the world perceive me to be foolish? Then by the world's standards I would prefer to be a fool than to be considered “wise”.
For the world embraces greed, deception and disloyalty. The world's “wisdom” is the ultimate author of pain and broken hearts.
For the love of one man and loyalty to my love is as necessary as life's breath.
I can not live any other way, for there is no other way to truly love another.