Lugubrious is the main word.
Unlike the familiar words we use for sorrow this one means most.
Greatly enhanced is the feeling of a person who loses another.
Unforgettable is what we may feel toward the person who has died.
Breaking the silence of our sorrow do we find ourselves in tears.
Reaching the pinnacle of success is not without mishaps.
In everything there is an element of sorrow as well as joy.
Only you determine your load of hurt on any one thing.
Unfamiliar people doesn't affect us as the ones we know and love.
Simply because we are not accustomed to their life.
(© Poeticbearlovestowrite 2014)