A New Woman - Satan's eruption

Don't let Satan held you hostage.
Don't let him make you lie to yourself.
Block out your feelings and he shall confuse you so bad.
He will make you believe you're doing something good.
Except someday it shall get too much and you shall crack.
This will only lead to sins that can be avoided only if you believe in yourself.
Believe deeply in your Lord.
You must believe he is the Most Merciful and kind and forgiving and he never wants us to suffer.
He punishes in this life to save us from Hell fire and the punishment of the grave.
Only ask God when you're asked to seek a hand in marriage you feel tranquil to it and not to go ahead to feel sorry for somebody.
Or marry with the intention to suit parental needs and this is not going to please thy Lord.
Marriage is a very precious and responsible steps so delicate and cannot be forced by the parents.
You're not doing your jobs as parents and standing before God as he asks of the suffering of your child and her sins which will be from the force of your marriage.
You say everything is written down, but Satan was involved when God was testing you and you didn't do the right thing by forcing your child into a marriage.
Why didn't you help your child slowly by reminded him or her what was revealed to them and reminded them to bounties and beauty of their Lord...
This would have been Wise and more loved by your Lord and when they're more able to cope with marriage they will come to terms and realize the truth of marriage and companionship and caring for the woman and bringing up the child to be abundant in worship to God they will love the idea of Marrying...
Except this is what is making marriage happen less likely and they just turn to money and greed.
Think about the consquences of your actions as parents.
Force will only lead your child to more sins.
If you force them instead of helping them stop you will see they do it behind your back and it angers you instead of making yourself a better person to controll yourself and stop Satan making you angry and making your child worse...
If you're gone they're gone you're the parents you need to be stronger and realize Satan is telling them to do bad things...
You need to help and not be angered by their mistakes.
Explain how merciful God is and how forgiving he is and they will reflect.